Honouring Juliana, Kyle, and Giselle: A Reflection on Domestic Abuse and Family Homicide

by Yvonne Michele | Mar 24, 2025 | demand change, Empowerment

As a domestic abuse case manager, I have spent years witnessing the devastating impact of violence within the home. It is with profound sadness that I reflect on the tragic murders of Juliana Falcon, 48, and her children, Kyle, 16, and Giselle, 13, in Luton last September. These were three “wonderful individuals” whose lives were taken in an act of unimaginable cruelty.

Juliana was described as a “strong, loving mother, always putting others first.” Kyle was “kind and funny,” and Giselle was a “beautiful soul.” Their loss has left an irreplaceable void in the lives of their loved ones and the wider community. In reviewing the court reports, the details are harrowing: not only were their deaths brutal, but they were also premeditated by the person they should have been safest with—their own family member.

The killer, whose name does not deserve repetition, sought fame for his actions.

He planned not only the murders of his mother and siblings but also a mass shooting at a local primary school. Disturbingly, he later disclosed in prison that he had intended to sexually assault his sister. This was not an impulsive act but a carefully plotted attack driven by a deep-seated desire for destruction and notoriety.

In her sentencing, Mrs. Justice Cheema-Grubb acknowledged the horror the victims endured in their final moments, the “anguish of anticipating or hearing the death of others.” And yet, even in their deaths, Juliana, Kyle, and Giselle likely saved lives. Their tragic murders exposed a looming, far more catastrophic event, ensuring that no other families would suffer at the hands of the killer.

The Intersection of Domestic Abuse and Homicide

This case painfully underscores the connection between domestic abuse and family homicide. While not all domestic abuse results in murder, the patterns of coercion, control, and escalating violence can be chillingly predictive. Many who commit family homicide have histories of manipulative, violent, or controlling behavior.
It raises crucial questions: Were there warning signs? Did Juliana, Kyle, or Giselle live in fear before that night? Could intervention have changed this outcome?

In many cases, the most dangerous time for victims is when they try to leave or resist control. While we may never fully understand the dynamics in this household, the reality is that domestic abuse often festers in silence. Victims may not recognise the danger they are in, or they may feel trapped by emotional, financial, or psychological barriers.

A Community’s Response

For the family and friends of Juliana, Kyle, and Giselle, there is no solace that can erase their pain. As Ray Prosper, their father, statement in court, “The pain of our loss will never be healed.” His grief is immeasurable, compounded by the incomprehensible reality that his son was responsible.
We send condolences for his loses.

As a community, we must do more to recognise and act on the warning signs of domestic abuse before it escalates. If you are worried about someone, speak up. If you are in danger, know that there is help available. No one should feel unsafe in their own home.

Earlier this month, I attended the Million Woman March on International Women’s Day, where we read aloud the names of women & children murdered by family members, ex-partners, and partners. 113 babes were read out including the names of Juliana’s, Kyle & Giselle – Year after year, we remember the victims & call out their names And yet, very little seems to change.

What Can We Learn?

This was not just an act of random violence; it was an act of misogyny and power. The killer wanted to rape his sister. He wanted to kill children. He wanted to be infamous. This is the deadliest manifestation of male violence—and it does not come out of nowhere.
We must ask:
•⁠ ⁠Are we recognising the warning signs of extreme misogyny and violent ideation early enough?
•⁠ ⁠Are families given enough support when a loved one shows signs of dangerous behavior?
•⁠ ⁠Are schools, social services, and mental health professionals equipped to intervene in cases where someone expresses violent intentions?

We have had these conversations before. After Sarah Everard, Bibaa Henry, Nicole Smallman, Sabina Nessa, Zara Aleena—we called their names. After the many mothers, daughters, sisters, and boys killed by men in their own homes—we called their names.

And we call them again now: Juliana. Kyle. Giselle.

But calling their names is not enough. Where is the change?

A Call To Action…

The pain felt by the family, the surviving loved ones, and the wider community is immeasurable. As Ray Prosper, the father of all three children, said in his statement : “The pain of our loss will never be healed.”
We send prayes & best wishes to the entire family & friends.

Juliana, Kyle, and Giselle should be here today. Their names must not be just another set of names called at a march. They should be a turning point.

We owe them more than just remembrance. We owe them change.

We must demand:
•⁠ ⁠A full Domestic Homicide Review into this case. (Domestic Abuse Related Death Review)
•⁠ ⁠Better early intervention when boys and young men show signs of violent misogyny.
•⁠ ⁠More support for mothers experiencing domestic abuse or coercive control in their homes.
•⁠ ⁠A commitment from the government to take violence against women and girls as seriously as terrorism.

Honouring Their Legacy

Juliana, Kyle, and Giselle deserved long, full lives. Their memories should not be overshadowed by the horror of what happened to them, but rather honored through action. We must continue raising awareness about domestic abuse, ensuring that those at risk receive the support and protection they need. Their deaths must not be in vain.
Let’s remember to pray for this grieving family.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, in any shape or form please reach out to local services for support. There is help, and there is hope.

Written by:
Yvonne Michele

If you don’t know about this case here is a link to an article on Sky News that gives the horrific details of what HE did and how his amazing mother prevented there being far more deaths.