As a domestic abuse case manager, I have spent years witnessing the devastating impact of violence within the home. It is with profound sadness that I reflect on the tragic murders of Juliana Falcon, 48, and her children, Kyle, 16, and Giselle, 13, in Luton last September. These were three “wonderful individuals” whose lives were taken in an act of unimaginable cruelty.
Juliana was described as a “strong, loving mother, always putting others first.” Kyle was “kind and funny,” and Giselle was a “beautiful soul.” Their loss has left an irreplaceable void in the lives of their loved ones and the wider community. In reviewing the court reports, the details are harrowing: not only were their deaths brutal, but they were also premeditated by the person they should have been safest with—their own family member.
The killer, whose name does not deserve repetition, sought fame for his actions.
He planned not only the murders of his mother and siblings but also a mass shooting at a local primary school. Disturbingly, he later disclosed in prison that he had intended to sexually assault his sister. This was not an impulsive act but a carefully plotted attack driven by a deep-seated desire for destruction and notoriety.
In her sentencing, Mrs. Justice Cheema-Grubb acknowledged the horror the victims endured in their final moments, the “anguish of anticipating or hearing the death of others.” And yet, even in their deaths, Juliana, Kyle, and Giselle likely saved lives. Their tragic murders exposed a looming, far more catastrophic event, ensuring that no other families would suffer at the hands of the killer.
The Intersection of Domestic Abuse and Homicide
This case painfully underscores the connection between domestic abuse and family homicide. While not all domestic abuse results in murder, the patterns of coercion, control, and escalating violence can be chillingly predictive. Many who commit family homicide have histories of manipulative, violent, or controlling behavior. It raises crucial questions: Were there warning signs? Did Juliana, Kyle, or Giselle live in fear before that night? Could intervention have changed this outcome?
In many cases, the most dangerous time for victims is when they try to leave or resist control. While we may never fully understand the dynamics in this household, the reality is that domestic abuse often festers in silence. Victims may not recognise the danger they are in, or they may feel trapped by emotional, financial, or psychological barriers.
A Community’s Response
For the family and friends of Juliana, Kyle, and Giselle, there is no solace that can erase their pain. As Ray Prosper, their father, statement in court, “The pain of our loss will never be healed.” His grief is immeasurable, compounded by the incomprehensible reality that his son was responsible. We send condolences for his loses.
As a community, we must do more to recognise and act on the warning signs of domestic abuse before it escalates. If you are worried about someone, speak up. If you are in danger, know that there is help available. No one should feel unsafe in their own home.
Earlier this month, I attended the Million Woman March on International Women’s Day, where we read aloud the names of women & children murdered by family members, ex-partners, and partners. 113 babes were read out including the names of Juliana’s, Kyle & Giselle – Year after year, we remember the victims & call out their names And yet, very little seems to change.
What Can We Learn?
This was not just an act of random violence; it was an act of misogyny and power. The killer wanted to rape his sister. He wanted to kill children. He wanted to be infamous. This is the deadliest manifestation of male violence—and it does not come out of nowhere. We must ask: • Are we recognising the warning signs of extreme misogyny and violent ideation early enough? • Are families given enough support when a loved one shows signs of dangerous behavior? • Are schools, social services, and mental health professionals equipped to intervene in cases where someone expresses violent intentions?
We have had these conversations before. After Sarah Everard, Bibaa Henry, Nicole Smallman, Sabina Nessa, Zara Aleena—we called their names. After the many mothers, daughters, sisters, and boys killed by men in their own homes—we called their names.
And we call them again now: Juliana. Kyle. Giselle.
But calling their names is not enough. Where is the change?
A Call To Action…
The pain felt by the family, the surviving loved ones, and the wider community is immeasurable. As Ray Prosper, the father of all three children, said in his statement : “The pain of our loss will never be healed.” We send prayes & best wishes to the entire family & friends.
Juliana, Kyle, and Giselle should be here today. Their names must not be just another set of names called at a march. They should be a turning point.
We owe them more than just remembrance. We owe them change.
We must demand: • A full Domestic Homicide Review into this case. (Domestic Abuse Related Death Review) • Better early intervention when boys and young men show signs of violent misogyny. • More support for mothers experiencing domestic abuse or coercive control in their homes. • A commitment from the government to take violence against women and girls as seriously as terrorism.
Honouring Their Legacy
Juliana, Kyle, and Giselle deserved long, full lives. Their memories should not be overshadowed by the horror of what happened to them, but rather honored through action. We must continue raising awareness about domestic abuse, ensuring that those at risk receive the support and protection they need. Their deaths must not be in vain. Let’s remember to pray for this grieving family.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, in any shape or form please reach out to local services for support. There is help, and there is hope.
Written by: Yvonne Michele
If you don’t know about this case here is a link to an article on Sky News that gives the horrific details of what HE did and how his amazing mother prevented there being far more deaths.
A day has gone by, this is the 1st of February and I am reflecting on Caught You a lie, the performance. Not the book, but the performance.
Wow, I feel so overwhelmed. I have actually just come back from doing a gig, and my voice is terrible at the moment. I feel absolutely exhausted, but I love what I do—and even more, I love inspiring people. I’m just so happy, I’m so proud of myself, I’m going to say openly I am proud of me. I am proud of myself for taking a bet on me and walking in bravery, that’s being brave in action, that’s what bravery is and through this action I have created and curated a play, a musical play, a one-woman show.
The Feedback…
The feedback has been absolutely incredible and overwhelming at the same time.
So I just want to again thank everyone who supported and came out, those of you sent me messages. You know who you are and yes, yes and yes again we are taking this on the road.
How are we going to do it?
God knows!! He knows and He will make the provision. But there’s no turning back now. It’s all good and it’s all love.
What now…
And I just want to encourage somebody, if you are out there and you’re listening to this and you want to do something, you desire to change your life, to live your life differently but you don’t know how then I am running the empowered woman sessions, actually it’s 12 sessions and it will help you to move forward in your life, get out of your way, become unstuck and really live your life on purpose, because that’s what this is about, purpose is calling.
So if you are interested I’m going to put a link below there will be a link and click on the link and book, the course actually starts on February 26th. The course is going to be delivered by me personally. So if you were inspired, if you’ve been inspired by just looking at my social media, you didn’t attend and you want to find your voice, you want to create a different life then click the link and join me for the empowered women hybrid. It’s a hybrid course, here’s live events, there’s three live sessions and the rest are online.
If you want to join the waitlist for Caught You In A Lie just follow this link – you’ll be the first to know when I have news about dates and tickets.
If you love music, inspiration, positivity and good energy …
You won’t want to miss the The Hope Gala Ball – The Masquerade Edition, along with “FORGOTTEN BLACK WOMEN HEROES” past and present. Bringing the community together, celebrating the ’75’ Platinum years of Windrush. It’s a Black tie dinner and dance
Fundraising for survivors of domestic abuse to empower them to take their power back and reclaim their lives!
Every ticket you buy helps & supports this cause!!
The funds from the ball, as mentioned above will go to help survivors of domestic abuse, this is all. done via GEM – The Global Empowerment Movement. GEM is a not for profit organisation that helps and supports women and girls to find practical solutions to overcome emotional challenges and provides life skills and tools to increase confidence and self-esteem, therefore allowing them to rebuild their lives and have a sense of wellbeing.
16th April 2020 – the world was locked down, in the early hours of the morning the police were called to speak to Denise about the revenge porn her estranged husband had posted. The officers took their notes and left at 1:30 – if only they’d done a quick search of the garden!
An hour later Denise had been doused in petrol and set on fire, she was rushed to hospital where she was pronounced dead.
Her estranged husband admitted in court to being controlling and jealous, he maintained that he hadn’t meant to kill her, even though a voice note he’d left her the evening before said “I really hope you suffer and die.”
His internet searched showed that he’d been searching for what is the best way to use a knife and kill someone, along with insanity in English law and cases where the insanity defence worked!
What frustrates me so much about this is it could all have been prevented if a police officer had done her job properly.
Denise first reported her ex in January 2020 for domestic abuse.
The officer involved cancelled interviews with Denise’s ex three times – she never spoke to him at all and then closed the case on April 6th, just 10 days before he took Denises life.
The officer involved in this case has lost her job, in the words of the IOPC for a shocking dereliction of duty. This officer failed Denise and Denises family, this happens way too often, she should have done more and taken Denises allegations seriously. She should have followed the reasonable lines of enquiry which her supervisor had set then maybe Denise would still be here today.
There is a perception that black women are strong and don’t need as much support, this is so WRONG.
We need the same amount of support as white women. We need to be seen and heard from a humanity stand point!
From my own experiences of dealing with the police for a personal matter if I was upset and emotional I had mental health issues, if I was calm and dealing with it I didn’t need support, I was damned either way.
My career has come full circle after leaving the DA, I’m working with a charity in London empowering woman & girls who are victims & survivors of domestic abuse to live better lives, in safety and learn to go from being a victim, to a survivor and find their true voice.
So you may be that woman who is sick and tired of being sick and tired with your life…You seem to take 2 steps forward but FEELS like you have taken 100 steps backwards all at the same time.
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My grandmother and otherwise women used to say…you have to learn to dance a yard before you go abroad.
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Fall madly in love with yourself first… Appreciate yourself Accept yourself Acknowledge yourself Align with yourself Affirm before you do that with anybody else.
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after leaving the DA, I’m working with a charity in London empowering woman & girls who are victims & survivors of domestic abuse to live better lives, in safety and learn to go from being a victim, to a survivor and find their true voice.
